I’m asking in general but also in terms of privacy. Is it worse that you’re more easily connected to your real identity through owning the domain?
i am basically the only user of my instance. it’s slow and i have to think about the fact that it’s not very private at all (although my address and information should be hidden), everything i say here can be connected to me. i’m not gonna talk about the details of my sex life or tell secrets on my instance lol.
but all in all it‘s pretty fun and i mainly use my instance in my day to day life for memes and stuff
There are domains you can register privately, if that’s a concern.
The main advantage is not having an admin block you from talking to certain people by defederating the instance they use.
But the admin can defederate from your instance? Then you do not see any content anymore from theirs and they don’t see you. But maybe I misunderstood you.
In someone else’s instance you can be defederated in two ways from an instance you want to interact - the instance you’re in defederates - the other instance defederate the instance you’re in
In your own instance you can see one option is gone now.
Parent comment is on mander.xyz. You are on dbzer0.com. The admins for either instance can prevent your account from interacting with the other.
If you start lemmy.ddash.com, the other admin can still block you, but you are the admin of your own instance. You are the second admin.
I self host for just me but Lemmy can be resource intensive, especially if you mirror pictures.
How do you turn them off?
I’m doing it and I like it. But I switched to PieFed which is easier to maintain.
When setting up my own here, I was debating to go for PieFed because I like the underlying features - but having had no sysadmin experience before, I went with Lemmy due to better documentation. But I am thinking about switching - can you “migrate” your instance, or did you just set up a new PieFed one and abandon the old Lemmy one?
Yeah, no migration available, which is a potty but that would be quite difficult to do it right.
